Throughout history, no demographic has been able to accurately represent every human who has ever existed. This raises the question of whether those who have passed away have been forgotten. Our time on earth is limited, and soon, we, too, will become a small part of the vast universe’s infinity of information. But does this mean that our lives are insignificant and everything we do holds no importance? Absolutely not. Our existence is interconnected with others, and the choices we make impact those around us in ways that we may not even realize.

Our decisions have a ripple effect on those who are close to us, whether it’s our family, friends, or partners. Even strangers can be impacted by the actions we take. Therefore, we should be mindful of our actions and avoid living carelessly. If we betray and hurt those close to us, they will remember us with regret and sorrow. However, if we show care and love towards them, they will remember us with fondness and gratitude long after we are gone.

Our lives may seem insignificant in the grand scheme of things, but the relationships we build and the impact we make on those around us can make a significant difference in the world. Our actions can inspire others to make positive changes, and the memories we create can shape the way people think about us and the world we live in. Therefore, we should strive to make every moment count and leave a positive legacy behind. We may not be able to control how we will be remembered, but we can control how we live our lives and the impact we make on others. In her White Family series, Karen Lawson delves deep into the ripple effect of trauma that passes from generation to generation. Her historical fiction book Sercie Hill explores the roots of the effect that is created and offers a guide to overcoming the trauma.